Why did he just stop texting me

If you have a guy who you are interested in and you have been texting back and forth and suddenly he stops texting, what is going on? Why did he stop texting? Did you do something wrong? Did he meet someone else?  Has he just lost interest or is he busy? Is he pulling away for good?

Texting is the top means of communication in the dating world now. We live in a society of instant gratification and we are all so busy. Texting is the answer. It’s a very simple and fast way to communicate with your love interests.

If you have been seeing or texting a guy and he all of a sudden stops, you are left wondering what is going on. It could be a number of things. The most likely explanation though is this. You just didn’t have his interest level high enough or you came on too strong too fast.  You got ahead of him. Guys are known for doing the slow fade. He could have met someone else, but chances are it’s just his level of attraction.

Discover the real reason why he is pulling away from you here!

What to do When He Stops Texting!

When a guy stops texting, you do nothing.  Seriously nothing.  If he has stopped texting he is investing no effort into you.  Your job is to mirror his level of investment.  You don’t invest into a guy who is not investing into you, seriously, just don’t do it.  It’s groveling behavior and that is just not attractive.  Even sitting around wondering why he stopped texting all of a sudden is investing useless emotional energy. If a guy stops texting or never texts you first, it’s your sign to pull back.

One thing you must not do when a guy stops texting you is to text him numerous times asking why. Judge a man by his action or lack of actions. You can measure a man’s interest level by his actions. If he is texting you everyday, he is more than likely interested. If he only responds to your texts and doesn’t initiate on his own, he isn’t really interested.

So if he isn’t really interested and you continue to initiate texts what do you think happens? You kill his attraction, that is what happens. This is one of the main reasons why guys stop texting and pull away.. There is no challenge when the woman does all the initiating. Have you ever not really been all that interested in a guy and he kept texting and calling? Did it make you like him more? I doubt it. It made you roll your eyes when your phone rang. There is no need to do his job for him.

If you are wondering why he stopped texting, more than likely, it could be a lost cause. A guy who is into a woman isn’t going to leave her alone long. He won’t turn into a guy who just stops texting. He fears someone else may come along and snatch her up. If he stopped texting, chances are he isn’t worried about this with you.  If you continue to try and raise up this dead horse, your value goes down in his eyes.

Another thing that often happens with these guys that stop texting once you go silent, stop contacting him is this. They resurface down the road to test the waters. They want to see if you are still on that back burner. Be prepared for this. This could be your chance to reignite his interests. It happens if you know the proper skills and techniques.



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